Dear Beanie,
I can't believe you just turned 6. Six. Where has the time gone?
Even though I still call you my little man, you are not so little anymore. I know you couldn't wait to turn 6 because that's a "big boy" age. This morning you woke up all excited because you were officially 6. Me? I wish you were still 4. I'm not ready for you to be 6 yet. I'm not ready for you to be independent. Not just yet.
This year, you've accomplished alot. So much that I'm so proud of you. You're in kindergarten. You're a great reader. You can pick up a book and read words you've never even seen before. Not sure how you do it, but keep it up! You're learning a lot of math. Addition, subtraction, even some multiplication. You've come a long way in swim class. You look so comfortable in the water. Who would've thought that just over a year ago, you were afraid to put your head under water. You can skateboard now. You can ride your scooter. And the list goes on... I am so proud of all your accomplishments!
Please don't grow up too quickly. I'm not ready for that. I still want you to be my little man. I love it when you call me "Momsie". It was annoying at first, but I love it now. It's that cute way in which you say it that melts my heart. Momseeee. Don't stop calling me that, please. It's the one thing that keeps you little in my heart. And as much as I love that you're getting older and more independent, I wish you could stay little forever. I don't ever want to hear you stop calling me Momsie.
I love you with all my heart. You're the best thing that's ever happened to me and I am so proud to have you for a son. You've taught me so much in these 6 years. You've taught me patience. You've taught me to laugh and be free. You've taught me to sing and dance. You've taught me the meaning of unconditional love. I love you for that. Beanie, you are and always will be the love of my life.
Happy Birthday, Beanie!
Love,
Momsie
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Monday, May 20, 2013
Sunday, May 20, 2012
Dear Beanie...
Dear Beanie,
Happy Birthday to my sweet little boy! Well, you're not so little anymore. You're 5 today. I can't believe it's been 5 years since I brought you home from the hospital. I still remember how tiny you were. That's why I called you "Beanie". Tiny and skinny, just like a string bean.
But look how you've grown. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Five years ago, I wouldn't have guessed my colicky, non-stop crying, always-needed-to-be-held baby would turn into the independent, funny, intelligent, compassionate little man that you are.
You're the best son a mommie could ever have. As much as I've tried to teach you and nurture you these past 5 years, I think you've done an equally, if not better, job in teaching me. You've taught me what innocence is, what it's like to see the world in your eyes. You've taught me to how to stop and just smell the flowers...literally. You've taught me the names of every skateboarding trick there is out there and no matter how many times I get it wrong, you say, "it's ok, Mommie." But most of all, you've taught me to love someone unconditionally. I love hearing you call me "mommie" or "mama" or yes, even "mom". I couldn't ask for anything more.
I find myself staring at you sometimes. Just because. Because of your smile. Because of the goofy dance you're doing. Because of your silly rendition of the latest pop song. Because of the things you say to me. Just because. And I smile. I guess I'm hoping if I stare long enough, I can freeze this moment in time. Because I never want those moments to end. Don't grow up too fast, Beanie. I know you're ready...but I'm not.
I am so grateful and blessed for the wonderful gift you are giving me every day! You make my smile, you make me cry, you make me sing, you make me dance. You are, and forever will be...my angel, my Beanie, the love of my life!
Happy Birthday, sweetie!!! I love you lots!
Love,
Mama
Happy Birthday to my sweet little boy! Well, you're not so little anymore. You're 5 today. I can't believe it's been 5 years since I brought you home from the hospital. I still remember how tiny you were. That's why I called you "Beanie". Tiny and skinny, just like a string bean.
But look how you've grown. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Five years ago, I wouldn't have guessed my colicky, non-stop crying, always-needed-to-be-held baby would turn into the independent, funny, intelligent, compassionate little man that you are.
You're the best son a mommie could ever have. As much as I've tried to teach you and nurture you these past 5 years, I think you've done an equally, if not better, job in teaching me. You've taught me what innocence is, what it's like to see the world in your eyes. You've taught me to how to stop and just smell the flowers...literally. You've taught me the names of every skateboarding trick there is out there and no matter how many times I get it wrong, you say, "it's ok, Mommie." But most of all, you've taught me to love someone unconditionally. I love hearing you call me "mommie" or "mama" or yes, even "mom". I couldn't ask for anything more.
I find myself staring at you sometimes. Just because. Because of your smile. Because of the goofy dance you're doing. Because of your silly rendition of the latest pop song. Because of the things you say to me. Just because. And I smile. I guess I'm hoping if I stare long enough, I can freeze this moment in time. Because I never want those moments to end. Don't grow up too fast, Beanie. I know you're ready...but I'm not.
I am so grateful and blessed for the wonderful gift you are giving me every day! You make my smile, you make me cry, you make me sing, you make me dance. You are, and forever will be...my angel, my Beanie, the love of my life!
Happy Birthday, sweetie!!! I love you lots!
Love,
Mama
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
It's NOT just another Hallmark holiday...
Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm just a thoughtful person. Or maybe it's a female "thing". But when it comes to birthdays and anniversaries, I feel that these are special days. And special days need to be celebrated. Right?
Well, yesterday was my birthday. And as much as I hate to celebrate a day that reminds me that I'm another year older (much, much older), it's still a special day to me. And call me selfish and self-centered if you'd like, but I think a birthday needs to be celebrated. Just my opinion.
So here's my 2 cents, for what it's worth. Just some advice for all the boyfriends and husbands out there on celebrating your girlfriend or wife's birthday:
1. Birthdays and anniversaries are not "Hallmark" holidays. These are special occasions and deserve some special attention. They're not like Veteran's Day or Columbus Day (not that those aren't important holidays). And they're not "just another reason for Hallmark to make and sell a card". You need to buy a card. Preferably prior to that special day and not just stopping at CVS on the way to dinner so you can pick one up and scribble a note on it in the bathroom. Plan ahead.
2. Birthdays and anniversaries deserve a gift. No matter what your girlfriend or wife says, you need to get her a gift. Again I repeat, GET A GIFT! If you ask her what she wants, pay attention. Even if she says she doesn't want anything...PAY ATTENTION! GET A GIFT! Notice I didn't say buy a gift. If you're short on cash, you need not spend a lot of money or any money. You can make her something too. Write her a poem. Not a literary genius? Make her a jewelry box. Not a handyman? Give her an "IOU voucher" for a favor or a project that she's been wanting you to do. You get my drift. It's really the thought that counts. I know, it's so cliche. But it's true. The fact that you thought enough of her to buy or make her something special...it means alot.
If you're going to buy her something but don't know what to get, get her a gift card. Some people think gift cards are thoughtless. They're not. Get her a gift card to her favorite store (hopefully you have some clue as to where that would be). At least she can use it to buy something she likes. Don't ever say, "I didn't get you anything because you said not to." She was being nice when she said that, idiot! And don't ever say, "You always return everything I get you, so I didn't get you anything." Big mistake! That's why you buy a gift card...
3. Flowers are nice. Unless she's allergic to them. But if not, buy her a nice bouquet. Short on cash? A single rose will do. This will definitely earn you some bonus points.
4. Don't forget about the kids. If you have kids, get her something from them too. Go pick out a card with them or have them make a card. It really means alot. She'll treasure it. I know I would.
5. Make dinner plans. Either cook her a special dinner or make reservations. She should not have to cook today. To earn bonus points...make her breakfast. In bed is preferable, but not a must.
6. Get a cake. We love dessert. Don't collapse it with candles that remind her of her age. One or two is enough. Who doesn't love blowing out candles?
And there you have it. Not too hard, right? It's totally doable. Seriously, it doesn't matter how much she says she doesn't want to celebrate. She does. Who doesn't want to be treated extra special once in a while. Trust me, just do it. It'll make her happier... and your life easier in the long run.
Well, yesterday was my birthday. And as much as I hate to celebrate a day that reminds me that I'm another year older (much, much older), it's still a special day to me. And call me selfish and self-centered if you'd like, but I think a birthday needs to be celebrated. Just my opinion.
So here's my 2 cents, for what it's worth. Just some advice for all the boyfriends and husbands out there on celebrating your girlfriend or wife's birthday:
1. Birthdays and anniversaries are not "Hallmark" holidays. These are special occasions and deserve some special attention. They're not like Veteran's Day or Columbus Day (not that those aren't important holidays). And they're not "just another reason for Hallmark to make and sell a card". You need to buy a card. Preferably prior to that special day and not just stopping at CVS on the way to dinner so you can pick one up and scribble a note on it in the bathroom. Plan ahead.
2. Birthdays and anniversaries deserve a gift. No matter what your girlfriend or wife says, you need to get her a gift. Again I repeat, GET A GIFT! If you ask her what she wants, pay attention. Even if she says she doesn't want anything...PAY ATTENTION! GET A GIFT! Notice I didn't say buy a gift. If you're short on cash, you need not spend a lot of money or any money. You can make her something too. Write her a poem. Not a literary genius? Make her a jewelry box. Not a handyman? Give her an "IOU voucher" for a favor or a project that she's been wanting you to do. You get my drift. It's really the thought that counts. I know, it's so cliche. But it's true. The fact that you thought enough of her to buy or make her something special...it means alot.
If you're going to buy her something but don't know what to get, get her a gift card. Some people think gift cards are thoughtless. They're not. Get her a gift card to her favorite store (hopefully you have some clue as to where that would be). At least she can use it to buy something she likes. Don't ever say, "I didn't get you anything because you said not to." She was being nice when she said that, idiot! And don't ever say, "You always return everything I get you, so I didn't get you anything." Big mistake! That's why you buy a gift card...
3. Flowers are nice. Unless she's allergic to them. But if not, buy her a nice bouquet. Short on cash? A single rose will do. This will definitely earn you some bonus points.
4. Don't forget about the kids. If you have kids, get her something from them too. Go pick out a card with them or have them make a card. It really means alot. She'll treasure it. I know I would.
5. Make dinner plans. Either cook her a special dinner or make reservations. She should not have to cook today. To earn bonus points...make her breakfast. In bed is preferable, but not a must.
6. Get a cake. We love dessert. Don't collapse it with candles that remind her of her age. One or two is enough. Who doesn't love blowing out candles?
And there you have it. Not too hard, right? It's totally doable. Seriously, it doesn't matter how much she says she doesn't want to celebrate. She does. Who doesn't want to be treated extra special once in a while. Trust me, just do it. It'll make her happier... and your life easier in the long run.
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